There are no set rules in fragrance; experimentation is key. Finding a fragrance for yourself is one thing, but choosing scents for two people opens up a whole new world of possibilities. Maybe you gravitate toward soft musk and creamy vanilla while your partner or a friend prefers warm spices and woody notes. Either way, it’s worth borrowing a few ideas from each other’s fragrance wardrobe. This month’s his and hers perfume picks explore both sides, with scents that complement different tastes without being confined to them. 

His and hers perfume picks of the month:

This month’s perfume picks lean into softness, warmth, and the appeal of a fragrance that feels personal.

BY/ ROSIE JANE Rosie

If you love fragrances that smell like an elevated version of your natural skin scent, Rosie is worth a look. White musk takes center stage from beginning to end, with a hint of pure rose oil adding a delicate floral touch. The result is soft and fresh, designed to settle effortlessly into your skin. \

FUGAZZI Vanilla Haze XDP

A bolder, longer-lasting take on Fugazzi’s smoky vanilla gourmand–in other words, its after-hours version. Hazelnut and coconut milk lead into vanilla, tonka, and clove, then saffron and caramel carry it into the evening.

FORVR MOOD Not Your Type

Not Your Type balances soft florals with warm, sensual notes for a fragrance that feels polished but far from predictable. Iris and whipped vanilla open the composition with a powdery sweetness, while white suede and tonka bean add texture. Oud, patchouli, and amber deepen the dry-down, giving the fragrance a rich, warm finish. It’s a good choice if you enjoy vanilla fragrances with a darker, more sophisticated edge.

LAKE & SKYE 11 11

11 11 is a unisex fragrance inspired by the color white. An ozonic accord creates a fresh opening, followed by marine notes, cyclamen, and amberwood. White musk and driftwood round out the composition with a soft, understated warmth. The overall effect is sheer and skin-like, making it an appealing option for anyone who prefers a subtle fragrance that feels easy to wear every day.

November colognes of the month

For those who prefer their fragrances with a little more spice, depth, or woody character, this month’s cologne picks offer two distinct directions.

COMMODITY Spice Expressive 

The most layered of the three, built to feel like wandering through a spice market. Saffron and allspice are combined with nutmeg, clove, and cardamom, melting into cinnamon sugar for a warm, chai-like blend. Best for: anyone who wants spice with real complexity.

TUMI Nova

A cleaner, more polished take on what makes a cologne magnetic, this scent opens with saffron and rose, before leather, amber, and vetiver settle into a refined, lasting base. Best for: date nights or any setting where understated actually reads as more attractive than loud.

Find your next signature scent with Scentbird

Whether you’re drawn to soft musk, warm vanilla, or a more complex blend of spices and woods, finding the right fragrance often takes a little experimentation. With Scentbird, you can explore designer and niche fragrances through an 8 ml vial each month, giving you time to wear a scent and see how it develops on your skin before committing to a full-size bottle. Who knows, you might even discover a new favorite by borrowing a few ideas from your partner’s fragrance wardrobe.

Frequently asked questions

Can men and women wear the same perfume?

Yes. Many fragrances, especially musk, amber, and wood-based scents, aren’t formulated for a specific gender. How a scent reads often has more to do with the wearer’s skin chemistry than any label on the bottle.

What’s a good unisex pick for someone new to borrowing fragrances?

Lake & Skye 11 11 is a good starting point. Its sheer, skin-like white musk and driftwood base make it easy to wear regardless of who it was originally marketed to.

Which fragrance here works best for colder weather?

Commodity Spice Expressive, with its saffron, allspice, cinnamon, and cardamom blend, leans warm and spiced, making it a strong pick for fall and winter.

What’s the difference between Fugazzi Vanilla Haze and Vanilla Haze XDP?

Vanilla Haze XDP is the more concentrated, after-hours version of the original Vanilla Haze EDP, adding hazelnut, coconut milk, clove, and saffron for a bolder, longer-lasting profile.

How can I try a fragrance before committing to a full bottle?

Scentbird sends an 8 mL vial each month, which gives you enough time to wear a scent and see how it develops on your skin before deciding on a full-size bottle.